Monday, March 28, 2011

Cara Wardina Latih Anak lekat Solat 5 Waktu...

by Ismail Mohd Yusof on Tuesday, March 22, 2011 at 11:34pm

Semoga semua mendapat manfaat..

BERBALOI PENAT LELAH KU...

by Wardina Safiyyah OfficialPage on Friday, March 11, 2011 at 8:47pm

Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda...

I have to share this with you... because i feel so happy and i feel that all

my penat lelah paid off..

I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday...we had a talk...(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la...tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat....she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that - because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti....But it is very important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal - kena make sure - every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2)l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together....kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu

Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum - i always kiss her at the head and say "Barakallahufiha" Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah....make her never miss her solat Ya Allah.....kuat2 bagi dia dengar....ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah - bukan waktu exam je amik cuti - buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! "mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!"

3)Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us... how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah.....TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK
solat...acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off....! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat!

I tell Amna that....we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat.....

4)Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)

5)kalau dia tinggal - DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember - and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok...but kena solat terus bila bangun.

Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah....tadi memang datang lambat...i was loking for
her..and guess what????

She was actually praying her Asar prayers...sorang je kat dalam surau tu....i

wanted to pengsan and cry...she did all by herself.... i pun told her how happy

and how proud i was of her...i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata "Amna ingat apa Ummi

cakap".....cair nya hatiku ini.

Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....and called nenek at Australia...now im

sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims

that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the

world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!

And the foundation is - to start them off right - solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!

I love you all!!! Good night.....

But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu...anak ketam tak
boleh diajar berjalan terus...fahamkan?
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Mummy in dilemma

I'm in dilemma.. Lately, I have a lot, going thru my mind... I'm in the middle..making a huge decision in life.. I'm thinking of work, or staying home.. Weighing all the options left..

Looking into auni's precious eyes.. I'm rushed with guilts, it is so hard to leave you.. If only I can be at work and be with her all the time.. I knew I need to make a decision.. I need to choose.. It ripped my heart to leave you, yet if I stayed all day.. I get to see all aspect of your learning curves and your adorable smile.. If only I could stop the clock, so you are always my babies.. And if only I can beg you please don't grow up.. So I can enjoy looking at your adorable and joyous set of toothless grin.. Owh I'm madly in love with you..

You are changing and learning new things everyday.. If only I get the chances to do both the same time.. I knew, if my business success now.. I can do both.. Which is what I preferred. .

I give a chance trying to succeed in a small holdings.. Doing my own thing, looking at the big names in the industry, trying to fit into the space, and hopefully earning and learning something on the way.. But why is it so hard making an honest living.. Don't competition is a healthy thing in business.. Its a healthy thing, yet I'm just so down to accept the facts that I need to move on, keep going and stand by it.. Doing what you love doing, one day, it'll all pay off.. Insya Allah..

As for now, as the blues still on.. I may need time off for myself.. I knew.. If I keep holding back.. I would suffer.. Suffer of burdening my own head with wishful thinking that I'm not taking any actions to change it.. I need a head start or maybe a good knock on the head to tell me to wake up and be real..

And let's pray, and hope that tomorrow the blues went away,.. And I bounced back, away from this blues..frustrations and indecision..


Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Operasi membuat cheese tart!

Bahan utk tart shell, 20 tart
2 cawan tepung
3 cubit garam
1/2 cawan gula aising
3 sudu besar butter,
Adun bahan-bahan ni guna fingertips, pastikan adunan ni berderai.. Kepal adunan dan roll. Dan jgn terlebih kepal sbb nti keras/liat. Roll hingga jd 0.5cm tebal atas plastic sheet dan sejukkan 10 minit dlm peti sejuk.

Panaskan oven 10minit.

Sementara doh sejuk, sediakan cheese filling
250gm Philadelphia cream cheese
1/2 biji jus lemon
1 cawan gula aising
Pukul semua bahan filling sehingga jd glossy/ berkilat..

Untuk blueberry filling beli yg siap letak dlm piping bag kalau ada, kalau takde pakai plastic bersih potong hujung dia. Size ikut suka.

Doh yang dah sejuk keluarkan dan tekap dkt tart tin, bakar dlm suhu 150 degrees. Bila doh tu dah agak kering keluarkan dan masuk cheese filling, dan blueberry.
Sejukkan dalam fridge 2-3jam.
Selepas 2-3jam, dah bleh makan! Selamat mencuba!
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Poo-poo dance!

Yay! Finally auni poop..late afternoon.. After a long waits.. She did her thing.. Mummy was so happy.. I was even doing a poo-poo dance!! Auni makes a poo-poo.. Yikes!!

Funny how a child makes a poop and it become such a big thing for mummy.. Seriously.. Mummy needs to chill..

As of the series of events where auni isn't doing her poop..I swore to myself, to stop taking any caffeinated drinks, and so on..as well as to start eating well, as a precaution.. And reminder.. I'm not eating for myself anymore.. Yes, motherhood teaches you to be selfless.. Taking care of myself, means I'm taking care of others especially my precious auni..

Yeah, I've heard that breast feeding could help loose babies weight.. But, I've seen no number declining since the last time I step on a scale.. Maybe I need a little more time ..and a little bit more patience.. Hoping so hard the numbers will go down..let's not give mummy a hard time.. She needs a break..go mess someone else's head, ok?


Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Mummy blues..

It has been couple of days since the last time auni actually making a poops.. It has got me worried sick of the facts..she has difficulty passing winds and motions..
Although the uneasy feeling with the windy tummy, auni still laugh and coo a lot, unlike any babies of her age.. She doesn't fuss around or even whine.. I know she's a great fighter like mummy.. Sigh..

If only there is a handy book how to care for a baby.. I know I would have one.. But.. If only there is.. It'll remain 'if'.. How I wish baby comes with a manual.. Or 'A Dummy Guide to Your Baby'... That also will remain a wish.. Coz there's none..

So, after google-ing and searching on the net, I found out that gripe water is good to ease wind on baby.. I shall try that.. And in the mean time.. I'm gonna have her visit the doctor in the morning.. I need to ease away my worry..

I'm sure I'm not the only one in this.. I know there are mommies out there who experience the similar problems.. I'm sure I'm entitled to be worry, anxious, and nervous about it.. I suppose, coz I'm a first time mummy.. should I join a forum and what not..?? Being a mummy 'mommies' and alike..?!

I'm so thankful to have her.. She's like a light at the end of the tunnel.. It only came clear to me.. All I did, and all I work for is none other but for her.. All this time.. She is the only thing that makes me complete.. When the day gets worst.. When everyone is against you.. And your mind and body just doesn't do any justice for you.. And when you look straight to a baby's eyes and she smiled.. All gums grin. It just melts your heart away.. I know.. coz I've been there.. It takes all the pain away.. It is true, the first genuine smile, beaming, toothless smile is a heartwarming milestone in parenting.

Thanks Allah, for the love and blessings.. Auni has filled the gap and emptiness, she fix our bonding that nearly turn sour..she means the world to me.. I never thought I could love someone so dearly.. And become overprotective.. Will die for someone..or even fight for anyone.. How I wish every women will feel the same and experience it.. A taste of a little piece of heaven..

But, its a shame a lot of babies been thrown away at a garbage bins, on a drain and filthy toilets.. I would call this kind- animal.. Shame on you!

Ok, sorry let's not get carried away.. Many thanks to all readers, who wishes auni a healthy and well thoughts..
Prayer and a special thoughts for all the wonderful women out there..especially mums.. An extraordinary human being that brought us to the world..


Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

Monday, February 7, 2011

Majlis kesyukuran aka berendoi untuk auni darwisyah!

Alhamdulilah, selesai sudah majlis kesyukuran untuk auni darwisyah yang berlangsungg hari ahad. 6hb feb.... Jemputan banyak, tp tak ramai yg datang oleh kerana cuti panjang raya cina.. Ada marhabban.. so meriah la jugak!

Seronok dan penat dalam satu masak. Mana tak penat noks!? Masak sendiri, walaupun mummy baru 54 hari.. Puas mengangkat periuk belanga dah nok.. Pastu hari ni aku mengadu sakit pinggang, boleh? Berkung-fu aku dgn adik aku masak kat belakang.. 2kali masak kot.. Sampai terkangkang aku balik rumah kepenatan.. Ramai sedara mara dtg.. Auni pun sonok asik kena kendong jer.. Lena jer tido..

Menu/kerja aku masak/buat: masak kicap, laksa, buat air, potong memotong kuih, buat pelamin buaian..
Adik aku plak buat bakso, goreng mee.. Masak lemak.. Mengemas.. Dan mengomel! Akakakakaka!

Thanks to nenek auni aka nenek.. Buatkan kenduri untuk auni! Mekasih nenek!
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

3 So-Called "Healthy" Foods that You Should STOP Eating (if you want a lean healthy body)

by Mike Geary, Certified Personal Trainer, Certified Nutrition Specialist
Author of the best-seller:  The Truth About Six Pack Abs


I was reading a statistic in a nutrition book recently, and this is going to shock you...

Now before I tell you the statistic, let's keep an important fact in mind... according to well renowned nutrition author Michael Pollan, and his amazing book called In Defense of Food, humankind has historically consumed approximately 80,000 different species of edible plants, animals, and fungi, and approximately 3,000 of those have been widespread foods of the human diet.

Now get ready for a shocking and appalling statistic...

Currently, the average adult eating a typical modern western diet in countries such as the US, Canada, Australia, etc consumes approximately 67% of their total caloric intake from only 3 foods -- CORN, SOY, AND WHEAT (and their derivatives).

What would be considered a reasonably healthy amount of corn, soy, and wheat in the human diet?  Based on 10's of thousands of years of human history, and what the natural diet of our ancestors was (indicating what our digestive systems are still programmed to process), this would probably be in the range of about 1% to 5% MAX of our total calories from corn, soy, and wheat.

Considering that modern humans are eating 67% of their total calories from corn, soy, wheat... you can see why we have massive problems in our health, and our weight! 

It's not a surprise that we have so many intolerances and allergies, specifically to soy and wheat (and gluten intolerance)... the human digestive system was simply never meant to consume these substances in such MASSIVE quantities.

Keep in mind that these massively high levels of corn, soy, and wheat in our modern human diet is a relatively new phenomenon that originated from the economics of the multi-billion dollar corn, soy, and wheat industries.  It really HAS been all about the money... NOT about our health!

By "derivatives" of corn, soy, and wheat, this means the food additives such as:

high fructose corn syrup (HFCS)

corn oil

soybean oil (hydrogenated or plain refined)

soy protein

refined wheat flour

hundreds of other food additives such as maltodextrin, corn or wheat starch, soy lecithin, mono and diglycerides, etc, etc

This doesn't surprise me... consider how much soda or other sweetened drinks (with loads of HFCS) that the average person drinks daily... this is a LOT of calories from just 1 sole corn derivative.  Even marinades, salad dressings, ketchup, breads, and 100's of other foods contain loads of belly-fattening HFCS!

Also think about how many processed foods we have that are either fried in soybean or corn oil... and even if the foods are not fried in these oils, these oils are additives to almost every processed food... chips, candies, cakes, salad dressings, tomato sauces, burrito wraps, corn chips, breaded chicken, etc, etc.  This is a LOT of calories from these 2 other corn and soy derivatives... both of them EXTREMELY UNHEALTHY!

On top of that, think about how much breads, cereals, pastas, muffins, and other highly processed wheat products that most people consume each day.  Again, this is LOADS of unhealthy, blood-sugar spiking, nutrient-poor calories, that more than half of the population has some degree of intolerance to anyway.

It gets even worse!

Not only are we eating 67% of our total calories from corn, soy, and wheat... but because of the economics involved (specifically with cheap corn and soy) we are also feeding most of our farm animals corn and soy now too... again amplifying the amount of corn and soy that passes through the food chain and (from a biochemical standpoint) ends up in our bodies.

Probably the 2 worst examples of this blatant mismanagement of our food supply is how our factory farmed chickens and cows are fed.

Cows are fed mostly corn in factory feedlot farms, even though their digestive systems are only meant to eat grass and other forage. This makes the cows sick (hmm... E-coli anyone?), alters the omega-6 to omega-3 ratio of the fats to unhealthy levels, and also diminishes the healthy CLA fats that would occur naturally in grass-fed beef.  All of these problems go away if our cows are fed what they were made to eat naturally - grass!

Our chickens are also fed a diet of mostly corn and soy and crowded in tight pens in horrendous conditions... when the fact is that a chicken was meant to roam around the outdoors eating a mixture of greens, insects, worms, seeds, etc.  When chickens are kept inside in tight quarters and fed only grains, it leads to an unhealthy meat for you to eat, and less healthy eggs compared to free-roaming chickens allowed to eat an outdoors diet.

Our food supply has gotten so screwed up that we're even feeding our salmon and other farmed fish corn and soy...again because of the economics involved.  How ludicrous is this, considering that fish are meant to eat a diverse diet of smaller fish, worms, bugs, etc.  Again this makes farm raised fish unhealthy in terms of nutrition compared to the wild counterparts.  If you want to see something even scarier about farm-raised fish, watch this quick video about the toxic fish you might be buying.

So even when you're eating chicken, beef, and fish, you're still essentially getting even MORE corn and soy into your body...considering that the cows, chickens, and farmed fish ate mostly soy and corn.

So it's actually WORSE than just 67% isn't it!

Why is it so unhealthy to consume 2/3rds of our calories from corn, soy, and wheat?

Well, this section could encompass an entire book, so to keep this short, I'll just throw out a few random reasons...

Skews the ratio of omega-6 to omega-3 fats in our diet to as high as 30:1, when a ratio of 1:1 to 2:1 is considered healthy.

Problems with gluten intolerance (related to heavy wheat consumption)

Problems with weight gain, blood-sugar swings, and reduced insulin sensitivity (and progression of diabetes) due to excessive refined corn and wheat flours, as well as HFCS in our diet

Soy and corn are the most genetically modified crops (which also allows more pesticides and herbicides to be used, which are usually "xenoestrogens")

Many of the pesticide and herbicide residues in these crops are xenoestrogens, which can increase "stubborn" belly fat 

Soy products and derivatives contain a double-whammy of xenoestrogens as well as phytoestrogens... again creating an environment in your body for fat storage, carcinogenic effects, and even "man boobs" for some men in very severe cases

The feeding of corn and soy to animals reduces the health and nutritional benefits of those animal products

and the list could go on and on and on...

So how do you avoid all of this overwhelming amount of corn, soy, and wheat in our food supply, and finally take control of your weight and your health?

1. Don't purchase processed foods!  It all starts with your grocery cart discipline... choose only 1-ingredient foods such as fruits, veggies, beans, eggs (free roaming), nuts, seeds, and meats from grass-fed or free roaming animals that are raised correctly.  Only resort to junk foods or processed foods on a 1-day per week "cheat day" but ONLY when dining out... that way, the processed foods aren't in your house to tempt you.

2. Get most of your carbs from fruits and veggies instead of grains.

3.  Avoid store bought salad dressings as they almost always contain soybean oil and HFCS (instead, try my homemade healthy salad dressing)

4. Make sure that your tomato sauces don't have HFCS and soybean oils... look for sauces made with olive oil instead.  Remember to avoid unhealthy canola oils too!

5. If you like guacamole (one of the healthiest snacks on the planet!), try veggie sticks with guacamole instead of genetically-modified, oil-soaked corn chips

6. If you like hummus, try veggies sticks with hummus instead of pita chips or other bread.

7. Reduce your cereal, bread, and pasta intake by having these foods only on "cheat days" and stick to more of the 1-ingredient foods I mentioned in #1 above.  Try some of these healthy snacks as good alternatives (yes, I know that one of the 13 snacks on there has sprouted grain, which is fine on occasion).

I could go on with more examples, but I think that's good for now.

So with all of this said... Is my diet perfect?  Well, no of course not!  Nobody is perfect, and I can give in to temptation on occasion just like anybody else.

However, I'd estimate that my corn/soy/wheat consumption is only about 2-4% of my total caloric intake compared to 67% for the average person.  The way that I achieve this is to simply not bring any corn, soy, or wheat products into my house, so I'm never tempted by it.  Therefore, at least 6 days/week, I eat virtually no corn/soy/wheat, except for the occasional piece of sprouted grain toast a couple times a week (which is a better option than typical "whole grain" bread).

I do, however, give in and sometimes eat breads, pasta, and even corn chips, etc. when I'm dining out.  I see these as my cheat meals and try to do this no more than once per week.  I still completely eliminate sodas and deep fried foods though...they are just TOO evil!

Please share this article with your friends and family on email, Facebook, Twitter, blogs, forums, etc... this is one of the MAJOR reasons that we are so unhealthy and overweight as a society... 67% of our calories from just 3 foods (and their derivatives) is an appalling statistic!  Don't give in to the marketing machine that is the corn, soy, and wheat industries!  Take control of your OWN health instead of letting big corporations take control of your health.

If you liked this article, please Share it below for Facebook:
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.