Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Things and words that Relate closely to me..

* True love isn't Romeo and Juliet dying together, it's Granpa and Granma growing old together.

* The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears. The kindest hearts have felt the most pain

* Life is too ironic to understand. It takes sadness to know what happiness is, noise to appreciate silence, and absence to value presence.

*And maybe its not life that sucks. Maybe it's just the people you let in your life that suck.

* I believe in second chances. I just don't believe everyone deserves them.

*i love finding money in my clothes. its like a gift from me... to me.

*Move on. It is just a chapter in the past, but don't close the book- just turn the page.

*Every girls dream is to find the perfect guy, eat without getting fat, and to have a best friend who'll stay true to her!

*Is there anything better then to wake up to a singing kid with the biggest smile on his face

*Don't dress, talk and act like a hoe & then expect to be treated like a queen.

*The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything they have.

*Always give without remembering, and always receive without forgetting. ~ Brian Tracy


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Monday, February 13, 2012

Project crumb cake plaks..

Kerana ku pantang melihat pastry-pastry dan adik beradik seangkatan dengan nya.. Yang kena sprinkle and drizzle dgn icing sugar, melted cheese dan sepupu-sepipit yang sama waktu dengannya...

Operasi membuat crumbs cake plak!
Percobaan kali pertama.. Tak menghampakan.. Cuma kurang krumbs dkt atas tu..jadi kurang la gooey-gooey mcm kek+cookies+mud pie+Maybe kena try lagi..


Hasilnya??

Monday, January 16, 2012

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Friday, January 6, 2012

Most Islamic countries in the world are non-Muslim

From malaysiakini.
Some of the reasons why I love Aoeteroa so much..

Yin Ee Kiong | 1:54PM Nov 25, 11

What makes a good Islamic country? Is it one where the people dress conservatively (or even severely in the case of women), adhere strictly to the rituals of Islam, where shariah laws apply?

Or is a good Islamic country one that keeps to the substantive teachings of Islam, more concerned with the content rather than the form of the religion? Where fairness, justice, honesty are the cornerstones of government policies and of its citizens' daily dealings.

How is a good Muslim judged? By the number of times he prays a day, by how assiduously he keeps to the rules? Or by how he lives the true meaning of his faith?

A study by Scheherazade S Rehman and Hossein Askari from George Washington University, published in the Global Economy Journal Vol 10 drew surprising conclusions.

The study examined if policies of Muslim countries (or Muslim majority countries) were founded on Islamic principles in comparison to non-Muslim countries. 208 countries were studied.

The criteria: economic opportunity, economic freedom, corruption, financial systems and human rights were used to measure the level of 'Islamicity' (based on an information website about Islam and Muslims).

The study found that most Islamic countries did not conduct themselves according to Islamic principles concerning economic, financial, political, legal, social and governance issues.

This is reflected in the governments in those countries but also the practices of the citizens in their daily dealings. Even at a social level it was found that many non-Muslim countries did much better in keeping to Islamic values.

The most 'Islamic' country the study found was actually non-Muslim – New Zealand. Luxembourg came second. The top 37 countries in the study were all non-Muslim.

Imaddudin Abdulrahim, one of Indonesia's leading thinkers on Islamic monotheism claimed that Ames, a small city in Iowa, represents an exemplar of an Islamic state.

Yet Islam does not play a part in the day-to-day social, economic and political life of the city. The population does not observe Islamic rules on food or dress.

Imaddudin was not interested in form; he used parameters which reflect what he considered true Islam – trust, justice, fairness, freedom.

He found that people did not lock their doors when they went out and yet no one trespassed.

If you returned a broken egg to the grocer he accepted that it was broken when you bought it and replaced it without question.

People were honest in their dealings irrespective of the value of the transaction.

The government was fair and non-discriminatory. People were accepting of ethnic or religious differences.

He saw Islam beyond shariah and beyond its textual appearances. He was more concerned with the substantive elements of the religion.

Recently I enquired through a friend the possibility of getting a scholarship (from a certain university funded by a Muslim tycoon) for an Indian girl who had done very well in her exams but whose parents were poor and unable to send her to university. I was told in no uncertain terms that scholarships were only given to Muslims.

How does this reflect the true values of Islam?

When I was in Sudan I visited villages where artesian water was pumped out by equipment donated by Christian charities. I saw clinics and schools built and maintained by Christian foundations. Every village involved was however 100 percent Muslim!

Is there anywhere in any 'Christian' country where Muslims are forbidden to build mosques? As long as they comply with the local building codes they have every right to do so and the law will protects their rights.

Yet this is not the case in many Muslim countries. No wonder so many non-Muslim countries score higher than Muslim ones based on Islamic principles.

It's no use spouting chapter and verse of the Quran if our deeds do not match the words we mouth.

We can follow all the rituals – fast, do the haj, pray five times a day, abstain from non-halal food, and cover ourselves. They all count for little if our deeds do not reflect the values of the religion.

If we are corrupt, if we discriminate against others because of ethnicity or religion, if we deny freedom of worship to others or even to one's own, are we living by the true values of Islam?

Are our economic policies geared to help those at the bottom of the ladder or do they benefit the top disproportionately? Is our political system fair?

Do we respect human rights? Have we an untainted legal system? Is our governance transparent and accountable?  Are we tolerant of other religions and not impede their practice?

By any of the above criteria Malaysia has failed to live up to Islamic principles.

The authorities obstruct the building of non-Muslim places of worship – or even demolish them.

Christians are persecuted on dubious grounds. Our government discriminates on race and religion. Corruption is rife especially in high places.

The poor (the majority of whom are Malays) are left behind while the rich get richer. There is no respect for human rights and the political system is skewed.

On every count we fail to live up to Islamic values.

Lately radical Muslims have started to see 'Christians under the bed' – an Islamic form of the infamous McCarthyism of the fifties in the US.

They imagine that Christians are out to proselytise their fellow believers. They don't believe that other Muslims can be more sophisticated than they and can make up their own minds what to believe in.

More than that, they demand Christians desist in doing whatever may remotely be a threat to them.

If these people were in charge in Sudan there would have been a lot of thirsty people and a lot of people without medicine and children without schooling.

I suppose they will now pass a fatwa that no Muslims must go to Christian hospitals. The Seventh Day Adventist Hospital in Penang has been servicing the people for a long time and a lot of Muslims use the hospital.

There are symbols of Christianity everywhere and there are Bible tracts for those who want to read them.

Going by recent events the hospital could be charged with proselytising. If so I think they would have failed miserably - I doubt a single Muslim patient has converted.

You go to a hospital because you are sick and because you think it gives good service. You send your children to a school because you think it gives your children the best education, you drink because you are thirsty, you don't care who paid for the pump that brought the water out.

Religion does not come into the reckoning for most people in this way.

Conversely you provide care irrespective of that person's religion or give scholarships because the person is poor and deserving, irrespective of her skin colour or her religion.

If Malaysia lives up to the real values of Islam and not its superficiality, the country would be much better off.

Radical Muslims should be careful that the Christians they imagine lurking  under their beds may turn out to be better Muslims than themselves.

But then maybe that's the crux of the problem, they are being exposed for what they are, faux Muslims.
 

YIN EE KIONG writes from Indonesia.
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Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Dilanda kebusy-an dan kemalasan berganda!!

Owh lamanya tak hapdet.. Sy sedang sgt busy dengan buai-buaian laju-laju saya..
Alhamdulilah, sejak kebelakangan ni buaian sangat mendapat sambutan.. Rezeki setelah mendapat cahaya mata ni berlipat-lipat ganda.. Murah rezeki anak ku.. Despite, auni selalu kena tinggal dgn atok and wan bila mummy on the job.. She sometimes a bit manja bila mummy stayback..

Lama tak hapdet, last weeks 15th, December, cukup la umur auni my little anak dara 1tahun. Yes we had a well planed party, mummy asik plan party and events org lain jer.. Bila dh ada anak, mummy gets to plan on my auni's party. Its a small birthday party + aqiqah, attended by family and friends. Remembering that auni hasn't yet got her aqiqah, so we decided to do it both the same time.. It is such a joyful events as nenek+atuk is back from Doha to celebrate auni's birthday. Thank u atuk and nenek for the time and effort in preparing for auni's party. Not to forget atok and wan and the rest of my in-laws for being part of the event.

Such a joy bringing up my little precious girl. She has taught me a lot about appreciating life and things in live. She taught me to be reserved and patience, and the utmost gift she taught me is to be a mum.
She brought tears of happiness and joy to us. Good things does comes in small packages.

Will update soon with the auni's birthday bash! Gotta run! Lotsa meeting and greeting to be done! Happy new year folks!!

Lotsa love from
Alina.Auni.
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Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Ramadhan hampir melabuh tirainya..

Owh dah berhabuk gamaknya! Diam tak diam dah 23 hari kita berpuasa, tinggal tak berapa hari lagi kita nak raya.. Sedih jugak meninggalkan ramadhan..

Cerita pasal raya, asik nengok orang shopping raya macam org gila! Adoi! Seronoknya mereka-mereka yang dapat duit raya, aka gomen! Aku ni nak harap sape bagi duit raya? Hah, lu pikir la sendiri!

Tahun ni juga genaplah 14 tahun, arwah nenek ku 21 ramadhan 1997, dan atuk ku.. 30hb oktober 1997, kehilangan 2 insan yang amat kami sayang dalam tahun yang sama.. Kembali ke rahmatullah, Al-fatihah.. Perginya tiada galang ganti.. Walaupun pemergian mereka ke hadrat ilahi sangat memberi kesan kepada kami semua, tapi ia tetap menyatukan anak-anaknya (my mamas's siblings). Kami semua masih berkumpul setiap hari raya, tidur beramai-ramai di hall depan, makan dalam talam ala-ala ambeng.. Pergi menziarah kubur beramai-ramai, pergi jalan-jalan raya beramai-ramai.. Dan kerana itulah juga, aku masih ada tempat untuk dipanggil kampung.. Tak tahulah berapa lama lagi.. Mudah-mudahan kekal sehingga ke akhirnya...

Dan, tahun ini jugalah, tahun pertama meraikan hari raya dengan anak dara kecilku.. Auni dah 8 bulan dan sedang aktif merangkak kesana kemari.. Aktiviti wajib, angkat badan, berpaut pada segala perabot dekat setiap sudut rumah.. Pastu sengeh-sengeh nak dukung.. Alahai auni.. Memang benarlah cakap orang, anak adalah racun dan madu.. Bila dah jadi mak barulah tahu perasaan mcm ni.. Dan bila dh jadi mak pak ni la, baju anak jadi keutamaan, baju aku dgn laki aku takde takpe, janji anak ganti baju baru.. Hai.. Sayangnya la dekat anak.. Macam mana orang bleh tergamak buang baby dkt tong sampah! Akaii ada ka??!
Persiapan untuk auni alhamdulilah, sekadar yang termampu, dapatlah baju kurung 2 pasang, dan beberapa pasang gown.. Lagipun dlm bulan syawal ni jugak makteh auni nak kahwin.. So haruslah ada baju extra..
Persiapan lain, cuma ala kadar sahaja, apa yang ada tu kami cuci dan pakai, yang dh beli lama tu keluarkan dan pakai, haruslah ekonomi.. Adoii.. Tu lah org kerja sendiri.. Bisnes masih baru.. Jadi tak baik berbelanja kasar! :p
Kuih-muih pulak haruslah buat sendiri! Saving lagi.. Akakakakak..

Keseronokkan hanya untuk anak menyambut raya, untuk berkumpul dengan saudara mara.. Itulah nilai hari raya untuk aku yang menjadikan aku semangat nak beraya.. Pergi berjalan-jalan malam tengok pelita keliling kampung.. Alahaiiii..!! Girang hati!

Anyway, kepada seluruh umah islam, selamat menyambut aidilfitri.. Dan memanfaatkan ramadhan yang masih bersisa dengan sebaiknya..kerana mungkin in ramadhan terakhir..

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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Tiupkan aku semangat baru...

Aku selalu memikirkan segala tindak tanduk, kata-kata yang aku lontarkan, perilaku yang aku tingkahkan.. Tapi setiap kali itu jugalah aku akan tersilap langkah.. Dengan setiap gerak-geri yang hati-hati itu jugalah sentiasa aku rebah dan kalah dengan dugaan yang maha kuat..

Terlalu kerap memikir.. Buruk baik segala tindakan.. Terlalu asyik memikir untuk berbakti untuk orang-orang sekeliling, tapi kerana keasyikan itu, selalu aku tewas dan usaha ku sia-sia memakan diri sendiri.. Dan kini, akhirnya aku terpaksa menelan kepahitan, memamah segala salah laku walau dengan niat yang tulus dan semua semangat aku menjadi abu.. Adakah salah takdir atau salah percaturan sendiri...

Hilang semangat ku.. Rasa longlai seluruh tubuhku.. Sesak dada,.. Sejuk seluruh jari-jemari.. Menghitung segala detik.. Berkira-kira bila agaknya nasib akan berubah.. Mengharap ehsan dan belas yang entah bila akan pudar... Mencuba untuk mengubah hidup tapi menjadi beban..tetap menjadi parasit..
Salah siapa? Salah mereka yang menipu? Atau salah aku? Takdir yang tidak adil? Atau aku tak mengadili diri sendiri, dan mentadbir diri dengan baik..

Aku mengharap mentari, mencari sinar disebalik kegelapan dan kesuraman ini.. Entahkan hari ini, entahkan esok.. Entah bila akan berakhir semua ini..entah bila semua ini akan berubah..
Terus mengharap dan menanti yang tak pasti...

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